WHY SPIRITUAL COUPLES DON'T DIVORCE
You may have heard of marriages that mirror fairy tales and one's that seem like they sprung directly from the deepest pits of hell.
Have you ever asked yourself why some couples divorce and some do not? Maybe it's just luck or maybe it is all about chemistry. Or could it be something deeper?
When a couple decides to marry they ultimately sacrifice their personal sovereignty to be with each other. Yet this is also one of the top reasons why so many people abstain from tying the knot in the first place. It is simply too much of a sacrifice! After all, it takes two willing individuals to commit to such relationships. If the sacrifice is not sufficient than marital problems will often erupt.
Have you ever wondered what causes the vast majority of divorces? The answer is the ‘ego.’ So should you worry? If you fail to take your spouses care and needs into consideration then the road to divorce is on the horizon. Being egotistic simply equates to selfishness which is toxic to any relationship.
Individuals with big ego’s often take center stage. Their needs usually overlap as they have to continually feed into it. Sadly, their spouse is often pushed aside and their sacrifice will be non existent.
Managing your needs and your partners needs is mandatory in a healthy and balanced marriage. You literally have to sacrifice for your spouse and that means you must be willing to give them your time, respect and love, even if they don't seem very lovable at times. In other words, you should stop always thinking about yourself every second! Decreasing one's ego is a simple way to do that.
So now it is rather obvious as to why many couples have marital problems which ultimately end up in divorce. But have you ever wondered at why some couples stay married until 'death do us part?'
Spirituality is a very popular word which evokes feelings of peace and positivity. But what does it mean to be spiritual and why do spiritual couples have such great luck in marriages?
The answer is relatively straightforward. Spiritual couples know how to 'be there' for one another. They practice care, compassion, kindness and deep understanding, which are the catalyst for a thriving and long lasting marriage.
The ego is simply the lesser force which means they also encounter less arguments and fights than do other couples.
I have always assumed that love is 'everything' and that it is all a relationship needs to thrive. Yet, I was completely wrong! It definitely takes more than love to hold a marriage together. Love is a vital and necessary ingredient to any union but it takes much more to create a long lasting relationship.
Spiritual couples deeply love but they do other things as well. They are excellent listeners and rarely insult each other. Understanding is a key element of their success. After all, if the ego is too large, understanding is often shuttled away.
One of the most important keys to any marriage is practicing good communication. Spiritual couples are not afraid to tell their significant other what is on their minds. Being open and upfront is essential because it allows your spouse to effectively get his or her needs met.
Though, dissatisfaction arises if both spouses cannot effectively communicate their needs to one another. This in turn causes pent up feelings which leads to frustration. Anger is the end result which helps to unravel a content marriage.
Sensitivity is another key aspect of a spiritual marriage. Being sensitive to one another means feeling each others emotions and being reciprocal. It means opening up and caring what is on your significant others mind.
Unfortunately, many spouses are too ashamed of being sensitively attuned to one another. Some might presume it as weakness. This is especially true for men.
Our patriarchal culture shuns sensitivity which is vital in maintaining a successful marriage. Changing one’s perception in this regard is important. After all, not knowing your wife or husbands emotions is troublesome, as you cannot read them in a successful manner.
Spiritual couples have a lot of great attributes compared to conventional couples. They are deeply understanding, great communicators, excellent listeners and are attuned to their spouses sensitivities. Best of all, they shun big ego’s and practice humbleness and deep compassion towards one another.
If you’re unhappy in your marriage, look and try to find any key elements that are missing. One of the most common traits of an unhappy marriage is lack of proper communication. If communication is not an issue then their is a great chance of salvaging your marriage and opening the keys to marital contentment.
Sacrificing your sovereignty is a big deal and spiritual couples have learned that long lasting marriages are the result of hard work and most importantly, ‘teamwork!’
Have you ever asked yourself why some couples divorce and some do not? Maybe it's just luck or maybe it is all about chemistry. Or could it be something deeper?
When a couple decides to marry they ultimately sacrifice their personal sovereignty to be with each other. Yet this is also one of the top reasons why so many people abstain from tying the knot in the first place. It is simply too much of a sacrifice! After all, it takes two willing individuals to commit to such relationships. If the sacrifice is not sufficient than marital problems will often erupt.
Have you ever wondered what causes the vast majority of divorces? The answer is the ‘ego.’ So should you worry? If you fail to take your spouses care and needs into consideration then the road to divorce is on the horizon. Being egotistic simply equates to selfishness which is toxic to any relationship.
Individuals with big ego’s often take center stage. Their needs usually overlap as they have to continually feed into it. Sadly, their spouse is often pushed aside and their sacrifice will be non existent.
Managing your needs and your partners needs is mandatory in a healthy and balanced marriage. You literally have to sacrifice for your spouse and that means you must be willing to give them your time, respect and love, even if they don't seem very lovable at times. In other words, you should stop always thinking about yourself every second! Decreasing one's ego is a simple way to do that.
So now it is rather obvious as to why many couples have marital problems which ultimately end up in divorce. But have you ever wondered at why some couples stay married until 'death do us part?'
Spirituality is a very popular word which evokes feelings of peace and positivity. But what does it mean to be spiritual and why do spiritual couples have such great luck in marriages?
The answer is relatively straightforward. Spiritual couples know how to 'be there' for one another. They practice care, compassion, kindness and deep understanding, which are the catalyst for a thriving and long lasting marriage.
The ego is simply the lesser force which means they also encounter less arguments and fights than do other couples.
I have always assumed that love is 'everything' and that it is all a relationship needs to thrive. Yet, I was completely wrong! It definitely takes more than love to hold a marriage together. Love is a vital and necessary ingredient to any union but it takes much more to create a long lasting relationship.
Spiritual couples deeply love but they do other things as well. They are excellent listeners and rarely insult each other. Understanding is a key element of their success. After all, if the ego is too large, understanding is often shuttled away.
One of the most important keys to any marriage is practicing good communication. Spiritual couples are not afraid to tell their significant other what is on their minds. Being open and upfront is essential because it allows your spouse to effectively get his or her needs met.
Though, dissatisfaction arises if both spouses cannot effectively communicate their needs to one another. This in turn causes pent up feelings which leads to frustration. Anger is the end result which helps to unravel a content marriage.
Sensitivity is another key aspect of a spiritual marriage. Being sensitive to one another means feeling each others emotions and being reciprocal. It means opening up and caring what is on your significant others mind.
Unfortunately, many spouses are too ashamed of being sensitively attuned to one another. Some might presume it as weakness. This is especially true for men.
Our patriarchal culture shuns sensitivity which is vital in maintaining a successful marriage. Changing one’s perception in this regard is important. After all, not knowing your wife or husbands emotions is troublesome, as you cannot read them in a successful manner.
Spiritual couples have a lot of great attributes compared to conventional couples. They are deeply understanding, great communicators, excellent listeners and are attuned to their spouses sensitivities. Best of all, they shun big ego’s and practice humbleness and deep compassion towards one another.
If you’re unhappy in your marriage, look and try to find any key elements that are missing. One of the most common traits of an unhappy marriage is lack of proper communication. If communication is not an issue then their is a great chance of salvaging your marriage and opening the keys to marital contentment.
Sacrificing your sovereignty is a big deal and spiritual couples have learned that long lasting marriages are the result of hard work and most importantly, ‘teamwork!’
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